Role of the Sweetheart
The Sweetheart, be she Chapter or State, should exemplify the highest
DeMolay ideal of womanhood. She will learn a great deal and meet many
fascinating young men, as well as make lasting friendships.
She is under constant observation, and must always conduct herself in
a ladylike manner. She is neat, well groomed, and sincerely dedicated
to the Order of DeMolay. Her aim should be to boost morale by adding
beauty, charm, and excitement to all functions which she attends. She
should go out of her way to pay attention to each DeMolay member, to
be friendly to all, and not forget the younger members who may be a
bit reluctant to receive attention.
The Chapter or State Sweetheart may not be a member of the Chapter or
State Parents' Club and may not hold office.
No matter what her role may be, she must remember that her warm smile
and friendly face are important to the promotion of her Chapter.
Practice good manners. Remember to be considerate of other's feelings,
their safety, their privacy, and their full social rights and
priviledges.
The Sweetheart does not have the priviledge of seeing or taking part
in the ceremonies of the Order, and should not even appear to listen
near the lodge room door. She may attend that portion of the meeting
when the Chapter is "at ease", but must never be in the meeting when
the Chapter is in closed session.
The above is given to the Sweetheart that she may understand the proper
times she may be permitted into the Chapter room. But it is the
responsibility of the Chapter to invite her in at the proper times.
A Sweetheart should learn about the guys in her Chapter. She should take
time to give encouragement and support when they need it. She must
remember she has embarked on one of the most precious years of her life.
She should handle it well, wisely, and with love. For this one year,
DeMolay activities should be considered TOP PRIORITY. If she will keep
these things in mind and remember to follow them closely, she will have
a very successful term and a very appreciative Chapter.
Should a Sweetheart (at any level) become engaged or married during her
term of office, she has immediately vacated her position and relinquishes
her crown and banner.
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